Tuesday, October 1, 2019

Rosh Hashanah: Attentive Listening

In the Torah, Rosh Hashanah is called “Yom T’ruah – day of the shofar call” (Numbers 29:1) and the central mitzvah (commandment) of the day is to hear. Before the shofar is blown, the person who is going to blow it says the blessing: “Who has sanctified us with God’s commandments and commanded to hear the sound of a shofar.” Yes, even the person blowing the shofar fulfils his (or her) obligation when hearing the sound, not when producing it.

On Rosh Hashanah, we are not only obliged to hear but to listen. More than other mitzvot, those involving hearing (Shofar and megillah, hearing the Book of Esther on Purim) require kavannah (intention). In everyday life, a myriad of voices and sounds enter one ear and leave through the other, without making an impression. A mitzvah demands more of us.

Maimonides in the Mishneh Torah (Laws of Repentance 3:4) explains:
Even though the sounding of the shofar on Rosh Hashanah is a scriptural decree, nonetheless it contains within it a hint, namely: Wake sleepers from your sleep, and those who slumbers from your slumber, examine your deeds, return in repentance and remember your Creator.

Maimonides emphasizes awakening as a preliminary for introspection. Rabbi Joseph Soloveitchik[1] adds another level. In his reading, a sleeping person is an object, in the grammatical sense of the word, because sleep takes away our ability to act. Therefore, the sound of the shofar calls on us to become active and responsible (grammatical) subjects. He contends that a human created in the Divine image “must be not only an object but also active, vigorous subject, a free person who thinks and acts independently…. With free choice, who can influence and not only be influenced and directed by others.”

Rabbi Soloveitchik gives an example that is particularly apt for Rosh Hashanah: Adam and Eve. According to some midrashim (homiletical interpretations),[2] Adam and Eve created on the first of Tishrei and sinned on the first of Tishrei. According to Rav Soloveitchik their statements, “The woman You put at my side–she gave me of the tree, and I ate” and “The serpent duped me and I ate” (Genesis 3: 12-13) were the opposite of a good defence because they actually admitted having forfeited their self-determination and being acted upon by others, Eve by the snake and Adam by Eve. 5780 years ago, Adam and Eve failed at their task. Can the shofar help us do better?
If we accept the call to be subjects who take responsibility for our lives, the important of attentive listening will not end but actually be intensified. We read about several biblical examples this morning.

The Torah reading for the first day of Rosh Hashanah (Genesis 21:1-34) begins with the happy news of Isaac’s birth, but quite quickly the family situation goes sour. Sarah cannot tolerate the presence of Hagar and Ishmael, and demands, “Cast out that slave-woman and her son” (verse 10). Sarah’s pain is real, maybe even justified but Abraham seems surprised and paralyzed by the messy relationships in his household (and not for the first time). God intervenes and tells him: “whatever Sarah tells you, do as she says” (verse 12). Abraham hears and understands the words in the simplest possible way. He does exactly what Sarah asked, but that was not the only option. 

According to Rabbi Naftali Zvi Yehuda Berlin (19th century),[3] Abraham missed the point. Noting the use of the Hebrew preposition ב instead of the more usual ל, means that God was telling Abraham not to listen to Sarah’s words but rather to seek her meaning. If only he had listened to Sarah’s distress, Abraham might have been able to find a solution less severe than throwing two people out of their home with barely adequate provisions. Abraham was in a position of power but his less than attentive listening left him has an object who acted in response to others.
Thirsty and feeling helpless, Hagar is incapable even of comforting her son so she separates from him. There is nothing left for them to do but cry. The cries of Ishmael (whose name means, “God hears”) are indeed heard on High but the angel answers by speaking to Hagar because she is the one who must be the responsible adult. Despite her physical and emotional weakness, she listens. As a result, God reveals the well to her and she begins to function again. Coming back from the threshold of death, at the bottom of the social hierarchy, Hagar manages to rouse herself be a subject, and take responsibility for herself and her son.

Hannah’s position is different.[4] A free, Israelite woman, the first wife of a respectable man, she is barren and longs for a child. Penina, her co-wife (literally “rival” in Hebrew) hears her and mocks her. In spite of his professed love, Elkanah finds it hard to listen. So Hannah takes her petition to God. While praying, she encounters another man who does not understand, Eli, the priest and manager of the shrine at Shiloh. He thinks that she is drunk and scolds her. Hannah does not accept his attitude because of his high status, rather she corrects him with a polite but honest and matter-of-fact explanation. Eli listens, accepts correction and blesses her. Hannah may be a prime example of sincere prayer and personal initiative, but Eli demonstrates that listening can lead to repentance and repair.

So far, I have presented stories about listening within a fairly limited circle, a family, household, or community; people who are in close proximity to each other. But Shofar also calls us to listen to those who are distant and different, even an enemy. Does the shofar also call us to be attentive to our adversaries? Yes.

The Babylonian Talmud (Rosh Hashanah 33b) notes that the Aramaic word for teruah is yevava, and in an attempt to better understand its meaning seeks a verse where it appears in another context. The verse they find is “Through the window peered Sisera’s mother, behind the lattice she wailed: “Why is his chariot so long in coming?” (Judges 5:28). Deep within the shofar’s sound, the wailing of Sisera’s mother calls to us.

Life is complicated. We can praise Yael who killed Siera, saving her people, our people, and also hear the anxiety of his mother.

After the Tekia (long shofar blast) awakens us to take responsibility for our lives, its Terua (wail) urges us to listen to carefully to everyone around us, not to settle for a simple or superficial understanding, but to really listen and seek the complex solution that serves - as far as possible - the interests of as many parties as possible. Maybe then we will merit to say honestly:
Happy is the people who know the teruah sound; O Eternal, they walk in the light of Your presence.       (Psalm 89:16, recited after the Shofar is blown).
Rosh Hashanah I 5780, Hod veHadar




[1] "Sod Siach Hashofar” in Yemei Zicharon.
[2] Leviticus Rabbah 29, and Pesikta D’rav Kahana
[3] Ha’emak Davar, on this verse
[4] In the haftarah (prophetic reading) for the first day of Rosh Hashanah, I Samuel 1:1-2:10.

1 comment:

  1. I so admire you for your thought process even if I don't understand all you say! I certainly miss learning with you. Thanks for sharing.

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