Monday, September 28, 2020

Yom Kippur 5781: The Covenant Made with the Thirteen Attributes

At Sinai, God introduced Godself to Israel with these words.

The Eternal your God who brought you out of the land of Egypt”(Exodus 20:2) but also as “an impassioned (or “jealous”) God, visiting the guilt of the parents upon the children, upon the third and upon the fourth generations of those who reject Me but showing kindness to the thousandth generation of those who love Me and keep My commandments” (vv. 5-6). Moreover, God sets an unambiguous condition forbidding the making of any visual image of Divinity.

There was excitement, exaltation and commitment, but only forty days later, the whole deal falls apart. Their anxiety when faced with Moses’s delay in returning to the camp causes the people to demand a physical representation instead of an abstract deity. Aaron succumbs to public pressure, and before long the people dance around a golden calf. Given the terms of the covenant set at Sinai, God’s immense wrath is unsurprising. God’s immediate response is a desire to destroy the people, and start over with Moses. Only the courageous mediation of Moses, who demonstrates double loyalty – to God and to the people – saves us and the punishment stops short of complete annihilation.

At this point, God realizes (as God also did after the flood) that even divinely-created humans are unable to function as God desires, and therefore it is necessary to moderate the terms of the covenant:

The Eternal passed before him and proclaimed: “The Eternal! the Eternal! a God who compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in kindness and faithfulness, extending kindness to the thousandth generation, forgiving iniquity, transgression, and sin; but does not remit all punishment, rather visits the iniquity of parents upon children and children’s children, upon the third and fourth generations.” (Exodus 34:6-7)

Considering the people’s proven weakness, the emphasis here is not on the Eternal’s impassioned jealousy but rather on God’s graciousness.
At Sinai, “visiting the guilt of the parents upon the children” preceded “showing kindness to the thousandth generation of those who love Me and keep My commandments.”
Now “extending kindness to the thousandth generation” and “forgiving iniquity, transgression and sin” precede “does not remit all punishment, but visits the iniquity of parents upon children...” Moreover, God’s graciousness is no longer limited to those who keep the commandments. It is now extended to all.

In addition to these verses' importance in the Yom Kippur service (we’ll get back to that), they are quoted within the Bible more than any others. Already after the negative report of the spies, Moses repeats God’s words back to God as a prayer for mercy. It works, and God replies, “I have forgiven according to your words.”

Jonah, whose story we read on Yom Kippur afternoon, also quotes the 13 Attributes in prayer, but Jonah prays not out of compassion but out of anger: “Isn’t this just what I said when I was still in my own country? That is why I fled beforehand to Tarshish. For I know that You are a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in kindness, renouncing punishment.” God’s compassionate, forgiving nature infuriates Jonah who omits a key word “אמת truth” when quoting God’s self-definition back to God. For Jonah, “truth” is strict justice, and he cannot bear the thought of sin going unpunished. The divine effort to balance justice and compassion doesn’t interest him. God has a different perspective. God already understands that the world can’t exist without divine mercy, and pardons the Ninevites, humans and animals alike.

Psalm 145 (verses 8-9) confirms the expansion of God’s grace: “The Eternal is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in kindness. The Eternal is good to all, and God’s mercy is upon all of God’s works.”

The expansion of God’s grace serves as the backdrop for far-reaching statements by Rabbi Yohanan and Rabbi Yehuda:

Rabbi Yoḥanan said: Were it not explicitly written in the verse, it would be impossible to say this, as it would be insulting to God’s honor. The verse teaches that the Holy One, Blessed be He, wrapped Godself in a prayer shawl like a prayer leader and showed Moses the structure of the order of the prayer. He said to him: Every time the Jewish people sin, let them act before Me in accordance with this order, and I will forgive them. The Eternal, the Eternal” for I am God before and after a person sins and does repents, because God is always merciful and gracious.

Rabbi Yehuda said: A covenant made with the thirteen attributes will not return empty.
 (emphasis SMZ; Babylonian Talmud Rosh Hashanah 17b).

On the basis of these statements, Exodus 34:6-7a become the foundation upon which the Seliḥot prayers for forgiveness are built, and we return to them repeatedly. The words in bold seemingly promise that reciting these 13 Attributes together, in praying community, will always lead to the desired result, our sins will be forgiven and everything will be fine. Life experience teaches otherwise. One who knew this well, Rabbi Avraham Saba, who was exiled by the Spanish Inquisition, explains the gap between promise and reality:

We often see many times that we wrap ourselves in a tallit and are  not answered. Rather, the divine will is that whenever Israel acts according to this list of God’s deeds, are compassionate and kind to the poor, are patient and loving with one another, and forego their right to punish, etc., then they are promised that the attributes will not return empty-handed. 
                                                                                                        (emphasis SMZ, Tzror Hamor on Exodus 34:5).

Reciting the 13 Attributes is not meant only to awaken God’s mercy in heaven but also to internalize them so we can realize them on earth.

But Rabbi Saba doesn’t completely solve the problem. Not only during the Spanish Inquisition and the Holocaust, but in every generation, good, kind, giving people – individuals and communities – have met a bitter end, despite the good they have done in the world and their sincere prayers.

I suggest that we understand Rav Yehuda differently. “Will not return empty” doesn’t promise that all prayers will be answered. A human can’t make that promise for God. Rather acts of kindness, compassion and patience will always bring relief, no matter how fleeting, to the people receiving them, and therefore they are never empty.

It’s been a tough year, and its hard (at least for me) to look ahead with hope. But if we are able to open our hearts and our hands, to be patient, compassionate and giving, our efforts will bear fruit.

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For further analysis and sources
, see Rabbi Menachem Leibtag, the Tanach Study Center, on Exodus 34, and on Slichot, and Rabbi Shai Held, Hadar Institute, on Exodus 34, and on later usage.

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